You want her to have it, even plead for it. She's reluctant, but willing to go on a 'date', even if just to make you happy. She does love you, after all.
Or maybe you're in the lifestyle, and you wife's boyfriend has moved on. I'm tall and fit and very sensual.
I'm decent looking. My massages are as relaxing as they are hot. In additional to being sexually satisfying for her, I'm a gentleman, nice, and intelligent.
I can on my side of a conversation, and I'm not just one dimensional I am open to one-time situations and to developing a long-term relationship with the right couple. I'm perfect boyfriend material--there when you want me, not when you don't. It's what works for her that I'm interested in.
Tell me about your situation and what you want. We can go from there to see if the chemistry is right.